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Sexual fetishes: Part of human nature

We all get turned on by different things. How much we enjoy the activities that we do is directly linked to how much we are turned on by them. Anything that we do: listening to music, going to the theater, reading a book, watching a film or eating a delicious meal, we won’t enjoy it if we cannot get aroused by it. Of course, when doing those activities, we don’t necessarily get aroused by them in a sexual way, so we might not even recognize this arousal as such. We are used to associating the fact of being turned on with a response that can only be sexual in nature, forgetting that all of our senses can be aroused.

We can also be intellectually aroused by a good book, or emotionally aroused when listening to a song. This is because it all starts in our minds. The mind is part of the body, they work together and cannot be separated. Intellectual and emotional arousal work on the same principle and come from the same place as sexual arousal.

Sex obviously turn us on in a more explicit way and we usually do it with the goal or reaching climax, which is naturally something we enjoy. So, why not find the things in sex that make us enjoy it even more? If we’re into having our feet licked, talking dirty or watching someone get it on with someone else, getting a kick out if is fundamentally the same as liking a particular song or movie: it’s about pleasure.

And we should allow ourselves to feel pleasure. There’s nothing wrong with it, nothing wrong with doing the little things that we like and find enjoyment in it. There’s even nothing wrong with calling them fetishes. It is a fetish, for example, wanting to be tied to the bed and spanked. It is an expression of something we enjoy that makes sex even better for us. London mistress Valerie August says that almost everyone has some sort of fetish or ‘kinky’ interest, although even they may not be aware of it!

Fetishes are nothing to shy away from. We should explore them if we can. Find out how much pleasure we can really get out of them and how far we can take them. Only then can we know whether something that in theory may attractive and interesting in theory is the same when done in real life. We might discover that it’s not, or we might discover that we can enjoy it more than we thought.

We should not repress our desire to try something new, try those little things that may bring us satisfaction and make our sexual experiences feel complete and fulfilling. We should allow ourselves to be kinky, be daring and be pleased.

After all, the little things in life are what make it what it is. Let’s not think of fetishes as “strange” or “abnormal”, they’re just little things that we can enjoyed. But we must remember that others may not share our perception of things. Everyone is different and what works for one person might not work for another. We should try to be open about what we want sexually and see if we can make it work with someone else. But everyone involved to be on the same page. It’s the only way that a fetish can be truly explored and truly enjoyed.

What if we haven’t thought about any fetishes? We all have sexual desires. When we like someone, and feel attracted to them, it’s normal that we will want to share intimacy with them. Maybe all we’re interested in is regular old-fashioned sex. That is all right, but the other person might be interested in something more. It could be good to try and explore their fetishes with them and perhaps even realize that we enjoy them as well.

It’s not about going around trying new things and partake in all sort of sexual activities just to try them out. It’s that sometimes we don’t try things out because we never really think of them without putting our judgments in front of us, and we discard what could be an enjoyable experience without a second thought.

For example, some of us would be definitely taken aback if our partner told us that they’re into voyeurism. We automatically reject the idea of watching our partner have sex with someone else, or having sex with someone else while they watch. We are quick to judge that sort of thing because we’ve been conditioned to do so by moral standards. However, if we open ourselves and open our minds, there is a chance we’ll find something that we can take pleasure in.

Now, exploring our fetishes and desires does not mean losing our moral standards. It just means relaxing them a little. It means forgetting about overly strict ideas of right and wrong. It’s not wrong to make ourselves or someone else happy. As human beings, we have a great capacity to enjoy ourselves, to enjoy the world and to enjoy each other. There’s no need to put unnecessary barriers on ourselves.

Let’s not let it get out of hand

It is a good idea, if we’re exploring our fetishes with someone else, to set ground rules, so that things don’t get out of control, be open-minded about other people’s fetishes, just as we would want them to be open about ours, and always make sure that the other person (or persons) are having a good time. Find a safe word, so that everyone can signal how far they’re willing to go.

Communication is very important. We are all human beings and we are all capable, or can at least try to understand where someone else is coming from when they share their sexual desires and turn-ons with us. If we communicate, we are far less likely not end up hurting ourselves or the other person. It’s pleasure we’re after, not pain (although pain can also bring pleasure to some), but we want to have pleasant experiences that could be repeated if we find the right person. We don’t want to go or make someone else go through something awful that will cause negative feelings later on.

Finding The best Mistress Escort Women in the club, and how to persuade, negotiate and have sexual intercourse with Them

What is a Mistress, and is it Essentially just a slave type woman that will do your sexual bidding for you?

A mistress, in the general and layman sense of the word, is a woman that is very slutty and attractive, and that you are going to be having general amounts of kinky sex with that has no strings attached to the relationship, meaning that you can also have sex with other women at the same time. A mistress is a woman that you generally may or may not like her personality or like her as a person, and instead just have tons of super hot sex with her, and are done with her once you have had your way with her, rather than disguising it as a romantic relationship, and proceeding to effectively throw away the woman and break her heart once you’re done with her and you are no longer attracted to her, with the BDSM way of getting a mistress, you are both essentially just friends, and there are no broken hearts and no hard feelings at the end of it!

Is a Mistress escort woman kind of like a BDSM friends with benefits type relationship?

A mistress escort woman is essentially just the 2017 version of a BDSM friends with benefits type relationship, and it is for this reason that it has become so hugely popular within the BDSM world of sexual intercourse. The issue with this type of relationship however, as it so with that of two friends that also have lots of really good sex inside of a friends with benefits type relationship, is the fact that someone literally always ends up getting their hearts broken when the fling stops at the end of the relationship! Often times both are fairly heart broken, and there are even movies that have been made about this entire topic due to the fact that it is becoming so popular in this hook-up culture of the millennial world that we live in today.

With regards to what my first experience was exactly like with a kinky escort woman the first time that I was in the BDSM scene at a club, the first time I went in, I saw her and I thought that she looked very very attractive. She was a tall blonde woman who was maybe about 5 foot 10 inches tall, and she was sitting across the club, looking alone and entirely shy and afraid of where she was, just like I was, as a couple lay spread out across a saint Andrew’s cross beating each other sexually into oblivion and eventually into orgasm. I walked over and started a conversation with her, and the topic soon turned to the fact that we had both attended raves in the past, that we both were in college, and that we both loved coffee! I asked her out for a coffee date immediately, seeing if she wanted to finally get out of this club since we had both literally been saying all night how intimidated we were. Once at the coffee date, while I had been on plenty of these things before and for the most part they’re boring, dull and don’t click, I found that we literally were talking for like 2 whole hours straight, and that even though the coffee shop was closing, we did not want to leave! I asked her back to my place for some drinks and a movie, and we had some of the hottest, kinkiest sex that I’ve ever had, or likely will have in my entire life, the mistress type relationship lasted for quite awhile, and she really was a wonderful submissive, boy was I sad when I let that one go.

How much do kinky mistress escort women cost, and how can you get them even free or cheap by being cautious at your first BDSM club meeting?

With regards to the pricing of these kinky escorts, for the most part a lot of them are going to be free with respect to the fact that these women do not charge for their efforts at BDSM clubs, and instead most of them are going to just be there for the sexual experiences. Most of the women at these clubs that I have seen, been with, or that I have just plain had sex with, are really going to be super horny all the time, and are very much going to be into kinky and attractive sex.

Mistress Escort women, are these women typically going to be dominant or submissive women, and how exactly can you use them for your sexual advantage and pleasures?

A mistress woman is generally a woman that is very much a submissive woman, and if you’ve ever seen the term mistress tossed around in movies or other shows on the big screen, you’ll see that the mistress essentially exists in order to please the man and all of his sexual wants and desires. The submissive woman is the main role of this mistress, and in the BDSM world of sex, she is one of his most valuable assets to be having sex with.

What is a Mistress Escort Woman, and Why Would Some Women want to be sexually dominated?

Some women are naturally submissive by nature, and really like to be sexually dominated by strong men. A lot of the times, there own husbands are going to be weak or submissive themselves, and they really are going to need to release.

Final thoughts on how to find the best, most super kinky sexualized Mistress Escort women that will have sex with you on a regular basis and that will let you do whatever you want to them

Well there ya have it, that is what a mistress escort woman is at these BDSM sex clubs, and this is what they’re like and how to use them.